For as many years as I have been involved in ministry within the Church, I have wondered:
What is the essential difference between those who call themselves Christians and those who affiliate themselves with a different religion or belief system?
It is a question which goes to the heart of who we are and what on earth we’re here for. It gives shape to the way that we work, that we celebrate, that we love, that we give, that we speak, that we rest. It is the core that keeps us standing and steady in spite of the challenges and difficulties of life, that allows us to move and dance with God’s Spirit, that enables us to reach out connect in a meaningful and life-giving manner with the world around us.
At our core is the fact that we have heard God calling us and have chosen to respond in a particular way that opens up new life: new ways of being and seeing and doing.
Each and every person in the world – whether Christian or non-Christian – has a special, God-given calling on their life.
George Bernard Shaw wrote:
This is the true joy of life; the being used for a purpose recognized by yourself as a mighty one, being a force of nature rather than a feverish selfish little cloud of ailments complaining that the world will not devote itself to making you happy.”
Within every human being lies a hunger for significance; a need to know that our lives count for something; a deep-seated desire to leave the world a different place because we were here.
For many, this desire can become an overwhelming drive that leads down the path of increasing narcissism and inflated egos, but for the Christian this “drive” should manifest instead as an ongoing, unfolding call to discover who we are and why we were created.
As I understand it today, my unique calling is to use my sense of play and prayerful imagination to create opportunities for others to connect more deeply with God, with themselves, and with others. It is a calling which has grown through my Sunday School years, to my acceptance of Christ as Lord during my adolescence, to the years spent preaching in churches and teaching in schools, to that moment when I first took off my shoes and stepped out from behind the pulpit in answer to the deepening invitation to come before God as I was.
The journey to discovering our life’s calling can be a daunting one. Sometimes we may be afraid to undertake it because we’re not sure we’ll like where God might lead us. Sometimes we simply don’t know where to begin, but Ephesians 1:3-23 reveals three calls common to all Christians that might provide a meaningful starting point for further exploration.
Ephesians 1:3-6 We are called to be children of God
One of the hardest lessons I’ve had to learn in my adult life is that God is not a God of demand and expectation but a God of grace and invitation. God does not love us because of what we do or accomplish. God’s favor is not swayed by the size of our house or the number of degrees on the wall. God does not smite us because we’re late for church or forgot to say grace before supper. Nor does God pour down riches upon us because we’ve been very, very good or put an exorbitant amount into the collection plate.
God does not need us to boost his ego or to prove his importance. God does not desire us to serve him blindly as slaves do a master. This is what Paul tells the Ephesians that long before the foundations of the earth had been laid, he had settled on you and me as the focus of his love and blessing – and so we are called to be his family, his beloved sons and daughters. We are invited into intimacy and unbreakable relationship with our Father God who makes us whole and holy through his great love for us.
The problem with this wonderful father-daughter/father-son image is that all too often we get stuck in the terrible toddler or teen years of our faith: we mistake the invitation for permission to behave like spoiled, self-centered brats who throw tantrums when we don’t get our own way or slam the bedroom door when we don’t like what daddy has to say.
The call to be children of God is a call to grow up and mature under the example, the affirmation, and the discipline of a dad who is strong and compassionate, just and forgiving, firm and creative, wise and good.
It is a call to discover which of his attributes we have inherited and to take responsibility for exercising them in a manner that brings honor to the family name.
It’s a call to exercise our free will and independence knowing that God is always available for a loving conversation when we’re uncertain of our choices or worried that we’ve somehow let him down.
It’s a call to celebrate our kinship, our connectedness – both to our brothers and sisters in Christ, and to every single man, woman, and child who was knit together by God regardless of their race, color, gender, religion, sexual preference, socio-economic status or whatever other label we use to separate and compare ourselves.
We are all called to be children of the God who imagined, made, and named every one of us “very good.”
Ephesians 1:7-14 We are called to be united with Christ
This, this is the call that we think we know off by heart. We hear it in the Gospel reading each week. We sing glorious, spirit-lifting songs day in and day out about what Jesus means to us: how his sacrifice on the cross has set us free from the power of sin; how his resurrection from the grave has made us victorious, even over death; how one day he will come again to establish a new heaven and a new earth.
But the call to be united with Christ does far beyond a few “thank you’s” or uplifted arms or Easter tears.
For to be united with him means joining our hearts, our minds, our mission with his:
- his plans become our plans,
- his anger at the injustices of this world, our anger,
- his defense of the adulteress about to be stoned to death, our protection of all sinners who stand in the place of judgment and condemnation,
- his arms welcoming in the little children, our advocacy for the vulnerable and the voiceless,
- his feeding of the five thousand, our responsibility for those living below the bread line.
Even his sacrifice upon the cross becomes the life that we are willing to lay down for another.
“It is in Christ that we find out who we are and what we are living for,” Paul tells the Church in Ephesus.
The call to be united with Christ is a call to look beyond the fortune and the fame and the protection and the power that we so often mistakenly equate with the abundance of life promised in Christ to the sacrifice and servanthood of Jesus that will make our lives truly significant.
It is a call to discover our part in the overall purpose that he is working out right now – in everything and everyone – for a praising and glorious life, an eternal life of peace and hope and love and unity.
If we’re deeply honest with ourselves the promise of Christ’s shalom is actually problematic in terms of our desire to be centre stage and our tendency to evaluate the quality of our life against another’s. When others are in hell, we can say that we are blessed, but what happens if everyone is blessed?
Sadly, our superior worth is all-too-often proven by how much more we have or know. And one of the “mores” that we love to hold over others is the fact that Christ is on our side – as if he only cares for the fraction of the world known by his name and nobody else.
The call to be united with Christ is a call to the cross with our judgements and pride, with our pet hates and secret ambitions, with our going-through-the-motions-to-see-what-we-can-get kind of faith, with our prejudiced pictures of who doesn’t belong with us in heaven – so that we can be free. And not just barely free. Abundantly free! that we might love and liberate those still bound by the fear of penalties and punishments.
Ephesians 1:15-23 We are called to be the Church through which God speaks and acts.
Not the Catholic Church. Nor the Methodist Church. Not Matthew’s Party Church. While we may find meaning in the doctrines and practices of a particular denomination, the Church of Christ is far more than that.
Neither are we called to be the followers of Paul or Peter or whatever particular pastor or minister passed through a while back with the most wonderful personality or glorious preaching style.
We are not called to be the church with the biggest sanctuary, the best worship team, or the most miracles. We are certainly not called to be the church on the corner in competition with the church on the other corner. Or the church for the old people as opposed to the church with the young people. Or the church for the black people instead of the church for the white people.
We are not called to be the church on the margins who piously keeps her hands clean of the politics and priorities of the world.
We’re not called to be a lovely little community club which gathers for the entertainment and upliftment of its fee-paying, card-carrying, uniform-wearing* members.
We are nit called to be a charity or a non-profit organization that gives handouts to the helpless and feels a little bit better about ourselves.
We are called to be the Church through whom God speaks and acts. That’s it! That’s our role. That’s our significance. That’s our calling: to engage with energy and passion in the utter extravagance of God’s work at the centre of human life and activity.
God calls us to get messy – to be hands on – where life and death and joy and pain are happening. In shopping centers and schools, in retirement villages and paintball arcades, in hospitals and homes, in huge corporations and small home businesses, God longs to speak and act and chooses to do so with and through us.
The call to be the Church through whom God speaks and acts is a call to put aside personal plans and agendas, to challenge ungodly acts and self-centered ambitions in our structures and our leadership, to place Christ again at the centre of our discernment and decisions, to be the agent by which God fills everything with his presence – and not our own.
How do we reclaim the integrity of this call in an era of alternative truths and decaying moral values?
Paul prays for the Ephesians: that they will be intelligent and discerning enough to get to know God personally; that they will stay focussed and clear in the way of life that Jesus has opened up to them; and that they may see exactly what it is that God is calling them to do.
As you seek to follow the call of Christ within your community and Christian life may you hear the call to be a child of God and commit to knowing him personally.
May you receive the call to be united with Christ and stay focussed on his sacrifice and servanthood.
May you be challenged by the call to be the Church through whom God speaks and acts and engage with what it is exactly that you need to do and be in order to be the centre of your community and not just a church on the periphery of human life.
And may God give you endless energy and boundless strength to fill everything with his presence.
*A note on uniforms: this is not a dig at the various church organizations or denominations that wear uniforms, but a general comment about the standards of uniformity that have crept into our churches. The “youth” often have a dress code that is different to the “elders” of the church, that is different to the moms, that is different to the singles hoping to find a good match etc.
simply seeking the Son
that Love may rise graciously to life -
both in me and through me.